Thursday, 6 April 2017

The love of a good woman

I would like to say that there is no definition for a good woman. It all depends on your perception of what you would like a good woman to be. 

Perceptions vary and as a result the qualities of a good woman is not uniform in the minds of men in our society. Do not be afraid to choose your good woman no matter what anybody thinks.

Most men aim to have the perfect woman so that they can live in healthy relationships and raise children of their own. I may not speak for all men when I say this but at least this is what I would want. 

Men have several definitions for a good woman based on individual characteristics and social status. I am no expert in this matter however I would like to give you some food for thought.

A woman who is good in bed can be considered a good woman to some men.  This perceived good woman performs oral sex, dresses up sexy and constantly entices her man. 
Men want women that are freaky and willing to go the extra mile to fulfill their sexual desires.  Independent men who are successful and self sufficient would prefer these type of women so that may release the stresses of work and other daily commitments.  
Lawyers, businessmen, scientists and doctors may prefer these types of women to add variety and excitement in their lives. Do not judge a lawyer who takes a popular woman to be his bride because to him this is a good woman.
A good woman can be defined as a woman who is religious and God-faring. These women attend church regularly, practice and profess the word of the lord. 
Some men are attracted to these women because of the perception that they will be less unfaithful and stable. Stability and respect are two attributes men usually look for in most relationships.
In other words a man wants a woman who supports him and does not cause an embarrassment through infidelity. Infidelity hurts, and reduces the pride and self esteem in a man. 
Good Christian brothers and men who have been hurt in previous relationships are commonly attracted to these women. 
Do not laugh when you see brothers who were hurt before suddenly attending church services. They are looking for good women.
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Monday, 27 March 2017

Lingering memories


Women are more emotionally intelligent than men. It's a scientific fact. This may not necessarily mean that they feel happier .... watch, subscribe






Thursday, 16 March 2017

IS IT POSSIBLE TO FIND TRUE LOVE





Let me give a quote from Helen Keller

"When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us".

Understand this, the people who succeed in ANYTHING are the ones who are able to fight through discomfort and failure. People who want to play it safe can continue to lead a safe, low-stakes lifestyle.
Will I ever fall in love again? This is a question that commonly comes up, and the answer to this question will always be the same for everyone who asks me. The answer to the million-dollar question is … if you allow yourself to.
People tend to think that love is determined by destiny, and it's true, that a lot of what we experience is brought our way by the people around us. However, when it comes to the love that is sent our way, we play a big part in the amount of love that comes through to us, and what doesn't come through to us. A lot of it has to do with how open we are to receiving what love is offering us. I'm not talking about receiving what you want or need. I'm talking about being in a state that allows yourself to flow freely without much blockage.
So if you're feeling stuck, in finding and accepting love, but in any area of life it would be very helpful to look into healing yourself.
You will be able to see where things are blocked and what issues from your past you need to release. Keep in mind that it's not a quick fix and it's basically like learning a new way of living that takes a bit of dedication.
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Monday, 13 March 2017

HOW WE can truly begin to live out the LOVE WE POSSESS

Question is: If love is the source of happiness and joy, why is it so hard to open to it fully?

We experience ourselves as separated from love, and this shuts down our capacity to trust. So even though we may hunger for love or believe in love, we still have difficulty opening to it and letting it circulate freely through us.

We think low of ourselves: We will resort to someone who will treat us badly.

We think highly of ourselves: We will wait for someone to raise us to that pedestal.

People with a low self-esteem think no one cares about them, when in reality they just can’t accept the love of those who do, because it feels undeserved and surreal.

Whenever you find yourself judging someone for their CHOICES, or find yourself being treated in a manner worse than you'd like, step back, and think.

The problems in relationships begin with us, when we imagine that the warmth ignited in our heart isn’t really ours, that its transferred into us by the other person. Then we become obsessed with the other as the provider of love, when in truth the warmth we feel comes from the love within our heart.
One of our frustrations with love is our complete inability to keep it.

Like sand slipping between our fingers, the harder we grasp the faster it seems to fall through. It would be nice if love was as simple as baking a batch of cookies or building a bird house for the backyard; a simple set of ingredients, a logical list of steps to take.

But we all know the truth; love cannot be manufactured. It cannot be bought or traded. It cannot be forced. It cannot be controlled. It cannot be plotted on a map or broken down into a checklist of to do’s.

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HOW MUCH LOVE DID YOU GET GROWING UP?

LET ME ASK YOU, HOW MUCH LOVE DID YOU GET GROWING UP?

THINK ABOUT YOUR PARENTS, WERE THEY LOVE BIRDS? DID THEY EXHIBITED LOVE FOR YOU TO SEE? AND HOW MUCH OF IT DID YOU GET GROWING UP?

I AM HERE TO ENCOURAGE YOU TO START NURTURING THE LOVE YOU DID NOT GET GROWING UP.

IF YOU PUT YOURSELF TO IT, LOVE WILL BEAR FRUITS FOR YOU TO SEE IN YOUR MARRIAGES, RELATIONSHIPS AND EVEN LOVE FOR YOURSELF WHICH IN THE LONG RUN CAN AFFECT YOUR ENVIRONMENT.

DO YOU find IT difficult to love SOMEONE? Is there someone you need to SHOW LOVE?
SEARCH yourself:
·         Who in my life do I find the most difficult to love?
·         Have I been withholding LOVE FROM SOMEONE? Why?
·         Write down at least 3 positive things about this person. They can be qualities, kind things     they’ve said, or thoughtful things they’ve done.
·         If nothing comes to mind, GIVE YOURSELF TIME 

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Sunday, 22 November 2015

NDC Primaries - 2015






The National Democratic Congress, NDC, have gone to the polls, countrywide to elect its flagbearer and parliamentary candidates for the 2016 general elections. Ever since the Party issued a set of comprehensive guidelines that closed nomination formalities of screening and vetting prospective candidates on 10th October, 2015, a lot of campaigning have gone on to showcase the competencies of all category of aspirants. In fact, a number of young and enterprising aspirants have popped up and are determined to unseat the party’s "Old Guards" in Parliament. This is a healthy development. But the old adage still remains that it is the child that knows how to wash his/her hands that dines with the adult. This clearly goes to say that experience is mightier than exuberance. It is therefore a matter of good judgment that the NDC ticket in every Constituency is most likely to be hotly fought for.

One important feature about the November 21 elections is the fact that the Party has given every single card-bearing member a chance to have a say in who should represent the Party through its Biometric Registration Exercise of guaranteeing Universal Adult Suffrage; thus abandoning the hitherto restrictive Electoral College in selecting candidates. There is little doubt about the importance of the NDC Biometric Registration Exercise in terms of advantages which include expanding the electoral base for Party elections; allowing all registered members to have the chance of electing their Party leaders; knowing the strength of the Party by numbers; selecting the best materials for positions of trust at all levels of the Party; eliminating corrupt practices that rear their ugly heads during elections; and suppression of manipulation of views and personalities by interested persons and groups aimed at having their way to control the Party. Since this exercise is the first of its kind by any political party in the country, there are bound to be teething challenges such as screening and vetting of candidates, compilation, printing and display of voters' registers, the inability of the Party to issue biometric membership cards to all those who have been duly registered; selection of designated polling stations, as well as the turnout and comportment of prospective voters and candidates. Two issues are most likely to hamper the smooth conduct of the polls: First, those who are bent on entering Parliament at all cost; and those who hate one candidate or the other and may therefore do things untoward to manipulate the elections. For example, the stuffing of voters' registers with names which could not be tracked through approved administrative routes, and the exposition of several names that appeared in the registers but were found out to be non-NDC members attest to the fact that some people are bent on outwitting the system by all means. The leadership of the Party has given all assurances that every registered member can go to the polls - even without membership cards - but for identification to vote since the register contains the photographs of all genuine NDC members who registered during the exercise.

It is heartwarming to hear that, the leadership of the Party has cautioned all non-members of the NDC not to go to any of the polling stations to cause any confusion. There is also the assurance that on Saturday all rules governing the conduct of national elections shall apply. So, those who intend to cause trouble for the sake of party politics must well advise themselves. It is also incumbent on all aspirants in the Parliamentary primaries to respect the rules and regulations governing the elections and particularly not to abandon the party and go independent if they fail to win. As the nation and principally the NDC as a party, make history come tomorrow, may the best candidates win their seats to represent the Party in the 2016 General Elections.

Tuesday, 20 October 2015

Hunger beckons -As food crisis looms in Ghana

Many Ghana­ians may experi­ence hun­ger this season as food crisis looms in the coun­try’s agricultural sector as a re­sult of late rains.
Erratic rainfall pattern has dominated the year, culminating into late planting by farmers who depends largely on favourable climate for bumper harvests.
The late arrival of rain this year, Weekend Sun learnt, threatens to plunge the country into some form of food shortage, as most of the sustaining crops were not planted at due seasons.
With agriculture being the primary driver of the economy, as well as it being the primary source of livelihood for over 80 percent of those engaged in farming, the absence of the rains has led to the farmers experienc­ing huge losses leaving a lot of them neck deep in debt.
The Ghana Meteorological Department, GMD, had predict­ed earlier in the year, that there would be low rainfall this year as well as an early cessation, (short rainy season), for almost the whole country due to climate change.
The accuracy of the predic­tions has led to huge losses to the farmers as most of them couldn’t sow their seeds on time.
The alteration in the weather pattern is leading to a shortfall in rains and thus threatening the livelihood of the farmers as well as the well being of the nation.
Farmers, especially those from the middle belt of the country, Techiman, Nkoranza, Wenchi and Kintampo, appear to be the worst affected by the erratic rains.
These farmers who are major producers of arable crops to feed other parts of the country are major suppliers of crops like cas­sava, yam and maize, complain of poor growth in their crops and expressed disappointment over anticipated poor yield.
Sharing their perspectives on the rainfall pattern in the country and its effect on their expected produce, the farmers noted that a likelihood of the entire country, being plunged into a food short­age, appeared imminent.
“The rains really disap­pointed me this year,” 42 year old Nkoranza based farmer, Kojo Adusei began. “If we don’t take time, the lack of rains will have a toll on our harvests and might put the country into some form of food crisis.”
With the middle belt serving as the food basket of the country, farmers in this zone have started counting their losses after invest­ing heavily in preparation of the lands and planting of seeds.
“Most of us invested heavily in preparing our lands but the rains failed to help us. Our crops didn’t do well at all and this will affect us as well as the country in general,” Ama Serwaa, a yam farmer in Techiman lamented.
She also reiterated that if the trend continues, the country would face an imminent food shortage.
“We are praying the trend changes because if the rains don’t set in, then the country will be in serious trouble.”
This gloomy picture from the farmers appears to have been corroborated by a research from the Peasant Farmers Association of Ghana (PFAG), who believes in the likelihood of a food short­age.
Speaking in an interview with the Weekend Sun, the Programmes Officer of PFAG, Charles Nyaaba, said the er­ratic rainfall pattern means that most of the farmers would have to wait for the rains be­fore they could proceed with planting their seeds.
“The middle zone, in­cluding Kintampo, Techiman, Nkoranza, Wenchi etc, have experienced very minimal rain­fall and have been worst affected by the poor rains. This pattern will impact negatively on the produce from these areas. Most of the farmers were waiting for the rains to set in before planting their seeds but because they didn’t come on as scheduled, majority of the farmers couldn’t plant their seeds.
“So you realise that the mid­dle zone will be greatly affected by the shortage of rains which could impact negatively on the country’s food stock,” he said.
Nyaaba however explained further that reports from other parts of the country could bal­ance the shortage from the middle belt.
According to him, reports from the Northern and Southern belts showed that even though the rains were erratic as well, the harvests wouldn’t be greatly affected.
“The reports we are receiving from the Upper East and West as well as the Northern region, indicates that this is not going to affect the crop yield even though the rainfall pattern was not regular. When you come to the southern zone too, Asutu­are, Ashaiman, Volta, Central, Western and Eastern regions, even though reports also proved that the rains did not come early as expected, they were still able to make amends and have some appreciable yield.
“So the only people affected in this case are those in the middle zone. And I believe the northern and southern zones will balance the effect from that zone.”
On his part, the General Sec­retary of the General Agriculture Workers Union, Kingsley Offei – Nkansah, was of the view that the country risks facing food shortage, even though “it will not be on the large scale.”
“There could be a shortage but certainly not on a large scale. Sometimes the food produce situation gets bad at one part and another part balances. For instance one part of the coun­try will have bad harvest and another part will also have good harvest. Also cross Border trad­ing from our neighboring coun­tries will help us and this will manage to cover up any severe food shortage,” he said.

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